Where to live in these "golden years"?

Before I forget, if you are visiting this site why don't you also have a look at Elderwomanspace. There's a link on this website.
Marian Von Eyck McCain set up Elderwoman and Elderwomanspace for women in later years - arguably the best years of our life!

My topic today concerns a not uncommon dilemma - people 60+ trying to decide where to live. It's certainly concerning me and my Significant Other. If you're quite healthy and active, your mind turns to bucolic bliss - no barking dogs all around your suburban block. What about those ten acres in peaceful surroundings? A dog, maybe a horse - or someone else's horse to feed. Then, if you're on the "wrong" side of 65 you start worrying about if you and your husband/partner are up to it. Of course, there's always the ride-on mower!

I spoke with a wise woman yesterday, who also happens to be a family counsellor. She said we need to plan only seven years ahead. If the country option succeeds over the city option, well, if needs be you can move back later. The city has a lot to offer those in later life - access to all necessary services and facilities. By this stage we've also worked up good relationships with our doctor/s and others who contribute to quality of life. Perhaps the trick is if you're heading to the country, make sure you're not more than an hour away from the city. This way you can still keep in touch with friends and have access to your usual services.

There are plenty of places within an hour's drive of Melbourne - you don't have to be isolated. An hour's drive is not too taxing. Of course, some country areas have good train services so you don't necessarily have to drive into the city.

I'm glad we don't have to make this decision for two years. But, it has to be made. We're not the type to go into a retirement home and would love to experience plenty of space - a spacious house on a "spacious" block of land. Of course, then you have to think of family - you don't want to be too far away.

Yes, it's a real challenge working it out. I'd love to hear what you've decided. Do drop me a word on the blog. It's amazing the variety of solutions people come up with, just when you think you've considered every angle.

Best of health and best wishes,

Camille.